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How to deal with bad lawyers

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1. INTRODUCTION There seems to be an increasing need, expectation and emphasis on civility in our legal practice - - by our fellow lawyers, clients and the public. There is also an expectation, a demand by clients that from the beginning of their file we advocate fully, forcefully, fearlessly and sometimes fiercely on their behalf. To be civil, calm and courteous is seen by some clients and opposing counsel as cowardly, conceding, too cooperative and sometimes negligent. Mixed in with these often conflicting expectations of the lawyer is the attempt to limit the legal cost - - is the cost increased by taking a forceful adversarial approach, or is the cost increased by taking a civil, calm and courteous approach? Are there times on a file to be civil – for instance, at the outset? Are there times on the file to be the forceful adversary, the attack dog – for instance, upon attending Court? These often conflicting needs, expectations and demands, and the often confusing roles ...

How to cope with stress being a self rep

Coping with the court process Representing yourself in a family law case can be stressful and emotional. Beyond knowing the legal rules and procedures, it's important to learn how to make preparing for court easier on yourself. Following the tips in this fact sheet will help you feel better equipped to take on your case. Take care of yourself During the stress of preparing for court, it's important to maintain your health and well‐being. This is important for you as a person, and for your case. Taking care of yourself will help you be "on-the-ball" for court and have a more focused mind. Here are some ways to help you cope: Get enough rest  — Sleep is the fuel to a healthy mind and physical well-being. If you're over-tired, you may get impatient, frustrated, and irrational, which may impact your decisions. Eat a healthy diet  — Well-nourished bodies are better equipped to deal with stress. For example, eating a healthy breakfast on the morning of your he...